Tuesday, July 12, 2011

I Lied - part 1

Yes, unfortunately there will be a “part 2”… but for now…

Last month, my niece was having her graduation party. She lives 2 hours north of here and I haven’t seen her in awhile.
Party day came and I couldn’t do it. Partly because of my phobia and partly because of recent problems with Gman – it was his sister’s daughter who graduated – I hate being fake and phony – I won’t do it.

I didn’t want to go and hang out by myself - Gman had recently confessed my appearance embarrasses him (another story). How could I go with him when I know he feels this way?

Gman worried about what his family would think about him going alone. I was angry because I wanted to go to the graduation ceremony the week before. He wouldn’t let me because he had a softball game and what would his family think if I went alone.  He also wanted to take my car to the game… he rarely ever drives his own (another argument).

In the end, he went to the party alone. I don’t know what he said about me not going, but I’m sure it wasn’t flattering.

I don’t feel the need to tell them “my side of the story”. They’re his family after all and really, I don’t feel the need to throw my drama on anyone.

I’m hoping this is just a bump… another bump, only a bump.

So I guess I didn’t lie, he did… still, doesn’t make me feel any better.

7 Friends Commented:

Cori said...

HUGS!!!! Hope things get straightened up quickly!!

Heather said...

Hi Mona,

I'm already following, and thanks so much for stopping by my blog on a regular basis. I added my button to your directory.

Now about this, I hope things get better with your guy here. He sounds very insensitive and mean. :( Hopefully there are some better qualities about him.

Couponing Texas said...

thanks for visiting Couponing Texas...now your newest follower..have a great Wednesday

Thisisme. said...

Hi there Mona. I agree with Heather, I do hope that your man has some good qualities. That was a bit mean of him, I must say! I have just noticed that you have become my newest Follower. Thank you very much! Hope you don't mind if I now follow you from over here in England.

Ewa said...

I hope everything will be ok for you :)

Thanks for a comment today - I might take your advice, it might help :)))

amber01sw said...

I found you on the Wednesday Social Buzz, I am your newest GFC follower. If you could check out my blog and follow me back I would appreciate it. Thanks Amber

~ Mona said...

Thanks Ladies and thanks for the follows.
He really is a good guy... but no one's perfect. We've been together for over 20 years...maybe that's what happens. I don't know. I hope things will look up SOON.
Thanks again,